There are no step by step
instructions or a logical plan for your first days as you transition into a new
position and school. All the professional reading that you do or the research you
do on the your new school’s mission, program and people, most likely will not
influence your first step, stride or jump into your new community. I did not
receive any concrete advice, and I did not have an image in my mind or an
outlined schedule of how things would fall into place during my first week on
the job as Head of Lower School at Wakefield School. I must say, not having gone through a big
change in 15 years, I truly was uncertain of what to expect or even how to
approach my first day – but in the end a week has passed and I feel settled, comfortable and at
home in my new surroundings on the Hill! This is how the week naturally fell
into place.
Day 1
and 2: Creating a sense of space and belonging
The campus was very quiet; teachers
away, and many admin on vacation. I sat in my office in awe just contemplating
where to begin. I felt the need to be on the move and to understand my
surroundings, so my Division Assistant gave me a thorough tour which helped me
to quickly feel grounded.
Day two amounted to folks coming in
and out, fixing phones, connecting printers, and then moving furniture. I think
we flipped the desk around three times – my heart was set on the window view;
after all it is what is taking place outside of the office that truly matters
in a school setting. I was anxious to be able to see both the beauty of my
surroundings as well as the hustle and bustle of the students once school is in
session. With furniture in place, I began to unpack my belongings and create a
space that would help me, and hopefully others, feel at home and comfortable.
By the end of day 2 I felt that I belonged.
It is an essential human need to feel that you belong in a community. It sets
the stage for engagement, happiness, and productivity. It is the responsibility
of leaders and teachers to foster this sense of belonging within the classroom
and the greater community.
Day 3: Traditions
When I arrived on day 1 I found two handwritten notes, one
from my predecessor and one from a member of the board. The notes indicated
that they had each left me an “official Wakefield School coin,” a challenge
coin to be exact. There were two immediate issues of concern. First, there was
no coin in sight, and second, I had no idea what a “challenge coin” was. Luckily,
when I straightening up each corner of my office I found the coins! On day 3 I
found the time to read the explanation of this tradition as well as my
responsibilities as a “coin holder". Low and behold, I am now 100% prepared for the challenge. I look forward to
“uncovering” many more Wakefield School traditions. As
leaders we must integrate traditions, rituals, and symbols into our practice in
order to reinforce and support a strong community and culture.
Day 4:
Relationships
I already know that at the end of
each day someone will walk into my office to say hello; I am guarantied at
least this one daily opportunity to speak my second language, a language that I
love and appreciate. I know that each and every day I will see a helpful hard
working colleague with a huge smile who will happily twirl my desk around 3
times, move my shelves up and down, or simply make sure all is set and up to
par in and around campus. I know that I have a patient, supportive Division Assistant
who will walk, sit, and talk with me to ensure I am in the know and ready for
each daily adventure. I am looking forward to developing many more relationships
with faculty, staff, parents, and of course, students! Relationships are the heart and soul of the school community. As a
leader I will take the time to build effective, trustworthy relationships
across and throughout the community.
Day 5: Integration
A special day! After reviewing each and every file, artifacts and book left for me in the office by my predecessor, today, I was able to
interweave and place my own books, files and artifacts throughout my office,
creating a special, authentic and meaningful office environment which I hope
will be both welcoming for everyone who enters, as well as allow me to engage,
learn, grow and support the community as a whole. An effective leader will honor institutional history and program while carefully
and selectively integrating new ideas that support the school’s mission.
Final thoughts of the
week
Although I respect and encourage a balance between life at
home and at work, I also recognize the value of including family members in
one’s journey. It was important to me that my two boys visit my new
environment. Both of them made it; Ricardo to deliver all of my books, and
Charles to help put the finishing touches to my office. Now when they hear my
stories, comments and reflections they will understand the context in which
they have occurred. Meaningful
connections between our community and families-that is what I hope we all want
on the Hill!
This is great, Margo! Thank you for sharing your view from the hill! :-). Looking forward to following your new journey and, of course learning from you too!
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